Su-sang loka turns toward company in which you can grow without performing an ideal version of yourself. Support might take the form of encouragement, practical help or a thoughtful disagreement. Agreement on everything is not required.
The square can invite you to notice who makes room for your choices and whose choices you also respect. A useful relationship allows both people to have limits. A group or teacher can offer something valuable without becoming an unquestionable authority.
Think of a recent conversation that left you clearer or more able to act. What made it helpful? You may want to seek more of that kind of contact, or offer a similar quality of attention to someone else.